Haitian Horrors and Plucking the Day

14 Jan in carpe diem, CNN, earthquake, Haiti, Horace, Musings [thoughts in process], seize the day

While my daughter Bethany was sloshing about (and taking entirely too long) in our ensuite bathtub tonight, I wandered over to the bedroom TV and turned on CNN.  There was Anderson Cooper, right in the thick of the Haitian nightmare, reporting on the earthquake aftermath from Ground Zero.  He showed footage his team had shot earlier in the day:  Dead bodies lining sidewalks, living bodies savaged and unable to reach medical help, family members wailing and searching and despairing. 

A 13-year-old girl named Bea was trapped face down beneath rubble, only her bare feet were visible jutting out from an enormous slab of concrete.  Her younger brother sat on his haunches on a heap of debris close by, listening to her cries, while several older relatives argued desperately with each other about the best way to free her and stubbornly kept at it with one ridiculous shovel until all at once she was free.  Her leg was broken but no one tried to get her to a hospital (there were reports that people who'd had limbs torn off had been waiting for medical attention for 18 hours).  She was OK, and while she answered the crew's questions through a translator, a relative fussed fiercely and tenderly with her hair ...

Let me say this first:  If you can help in anyway, please do.  One great option is Compassion ...
Or in the US, text "disaster" to 90999 to give $10 to Compassion's Haiti relief efforts

Let me say this second:  Please pray for my dear friend Karen Taylor and Compassion Canada CEO Barry Slauenwhite.  Karen and I had several conversations last week about my upcoming tour; we were racing the clock to get our planning done because she and Barry were taking a team of Canadian pastor couples to Haiti on Monday.  They landed in Haiti about 1 hour before the quake and were able to get a text out that they made it safely to the Canadian Embassy.  They haven't been heard from since -- indications are that they are safe but only God knows what they are witnessing and experiencing.  [Update 2:34pm Thursday - we've received confirmation that Karen, Barry and the group they were traveling with have all been safely evacuated to the DR, and will be returning to Canada within 24 hours.]

Let me say this third:  Earlier today my buddy Tim Dixon sent me an email teasing me about my old song "Seize The Day", in which he shared an excerpt from a blog post on Snarkmarket.com.

Here's the excerpt:

 So here’s a char­ac­ter [of American Novelist Nicholson Baker] talk­ing about Horace’s most famous phrase: Carpe diem! Seize the day! Well, er, actually:

…here’s the thing. Horace didn’t say that. “Carpe diem” doesn’t mean seize the day—it means some­thing gen­tler and more sen­si­ble. “Carpe diem” means pluck the day. Carpe, pluck. Seize the day would be “cape diem,” if my school Latin serves. No R. Very dif­fer­ent piece of advice.

There’s more, and it’s sooo good, over at Varia:

Don’t freak­ing grab the day in your fist like a burger at a fair­ground and take a big chomp­ing bite out of it. That’s not the kind of man that Horace was.

Tim suggested that in light of the post, I might want to consider changing the title of my song.  I replied that there might be some rhyming problems with the word "pluck".   And then I remembered that when we shot the video a million moons ago for "Seize the Day", we included a series of quotes, and the first was this:

Pick the day as you would a poppy.
- Cicero
 
That's pretty close to the plucking idea, don't you think?
 
Of course, humans pluck not only flowers, but the strings of guitars and harps and violins, and I did rather like the idea of plucking each fragile day we're given and making some sort of music out of our lives.  In fact, the more I thought about it the more I thought novelist Baker and the Snarkmarket bloggers were onto something.  Maybe if we plucked our days more than we grabbed at them, we'd have something a little more beautiful to offer ...
 
And then I watched the carnage in Haiti, and I felt foolish for ever having written a song as idealistic and hopeful as "Seize the Day".  I felt strange knowing that this very day I had fancied the poetic idea of plucking our lives while around the world thousands were being snuffed out. 
 
I was sulking about these things when I first saw Bea.  I watched her trapped, and then rescued.  I saw her relatives celebrate and fuss with her hair, even as they mourned the loss of four other family members.  And I believed again that our lives are gifts and mysteries, and that we should seize them not like hamburgers but like the gifts and mysteries they are.  We should pick them and pluck them and live them NOW.
 
My girl Beth came out of the tub, water-wrinkled and soapy-fresh, and we watched some of the coverage while I put curlers in her hair.  After bedtime prayers she called me back into her room and whispered in the dark.  "I'm scared, Mommy.  Of earthquakes and fires and floods and explosions and robbers."  And I said some stuff about our house being safe and the odds of trouble being low and she said "But still ..." and I said, "I know."  So I stroked her hair (curlers and all) till she fell asleep and I prayed for my friends in Haiti, and for my girl in her bed, and for my son down the hall, and for my husband in the kitchen, and for more days, and for the courage and pluck to live them.
 
Carpe Diem,
Carolyn
 
PS -- Also this very day, a man named Steve Givens sent me a link to his beautiful blogpost about my song and ways he learned to Seize the Day in Nicarauga.  In another song, "According to Plan", I sing "So maybe some things are not orchestrated."  For the record, I think some things are.
 

Comments

Barry

Just heard on CHRI here in Ottawa that Barry Slauenwhite and friends have been evacuated to Dominican Republic. Apparently they were on route to their hotel when they saw it collapse before their eyes. Any how I hope that means your friend Karen is alright too. _/\_ (closest I could come to "praying hands" emoticon)

Our friends are OK

Hi Brian -- thanks for the update -- we have confirmation that the Compassion Canada group made it out to the DR.  Keep those praying hands happening -- there is still much work to be done.

Peace,
Carolyn

Pluck the Day

My 16 year old son broke his leg on boxing day. Had surgery that same day. Your comments on Haiti and Seize the Day bridged an opportunity for me to write something on his Facebook wall. Thought I would share it with you. Hope it encourages you. Yours certainly did me.

______________

Hey there. Thanks for sending me the link to your blog. I enjoyed reading some of your thoughts. Here is a blog post you will want to read and then maybe post on your own.

http://carolynarends.com/site/blog/haiti-horrors-and-plucking-day

The breaking of your leg really sucked. How you’re handling and adapting to it doesn't suck. I think you're coping with a better attitude than I have.

When I read stories from Haiti and how broken limbs cannot be attended to, and witness the extent of suffering in the face of presumed hopelessness – it makes me thankful for where we live and what we have access to.

It reminds me to realize that we owe – we owe it to others to make a difference. Somehow, somewhere – always.

We will reach out in some way to assist in Haiti.

But let it begin and always be where we are in the present – being a difference maker.

It costs – always will. But we’re able because of the Cross.

Pluck the day (read the blog)

Dad

Thanks Rick!

Hi Rick -- thanks so much for sharing -- and please pass on a "heal quick!" to your son.
- Carolyn

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